The Lovers card represent love and harmony. The Lovers is about connection and relationships. It represents the coming together of two ideas or parties and the unique exchange or dance that those two begin to partake it. It's the coming together for shared expansion. Connection that is built on shared or mutual vulnerability, kindness and understanding. The lovers doesn't necessarily have to be a romantic partner, although usually it is. The lovers can be a partnership or friendship that blooms growth and expansion.
- Love and expansion.
- Romantic relationships.
- Friendships.
- Partnerships.
Union.
- Bonding.
- Shared vulnerability and openness.
In love, the Lovers card is a good omen to get. This relationship is lighting a fire within you and there's nothing quite like the feeling of falling in-love with someone. Both parties have a magnified attraction to each other. Smiling from ear to ear vibes. This relationship is built on connection, mutual attraction, excitement and sexual chemistry. Both parities feel like they can be their authentic selves, showing the other partner their true vulnerability. This is a connection that moves you, like really, really moves you. This person makes you want to be better, and love harder and creates feelings of passions within your emotional body. It's a truly magical and amazing event with so much growth and expansion emanating. Remember, relationships are like mirrors and you can reflect the beauty in the other person straight back to them.
If you are single and looking for love, the lovers card is asking you to move closer to the aspects of your life that move you closer to the feeling of love. If your workplace or your family makes you feel love, then make time and adjustments in your life to move you closer to those things. Love is the strongest thing in the universe, design you life to move closer to love.
The Lovers card in a spiritual reading can represent a stronger connection to your higher self, inner self or even spirit guides. It suggests love and harmony within yourself that is creating harmony and growth on a spiritual level. This relationship with yourself is gaining momentum and love, which is have a deeply positive effect on your spiritual growth and transcendence.
In a health reading, the Lovers card can indicate that you're relationship with your physical self is becoming stronger. It's important to treat our physical body with love and compassion, take care of it with nourishing foods and exercise.
This can also indicate self love when it comes to body image. Perhaps you are learning to love your body and embracing your physical self as beautiful, strong and deserving of love.
In a career reading, the Lovers card can indicate a business partnership, a collaboration or the coming together of two organizations or businesses. This is a partnership that is build on mutual respect and growth for both future prospects.
Sometimes the Lovers card can represent a work or career relationship, that may blossom into a romantic connection. If so, make sure that both parties are aware of the ramifications of moving into a romantic connection.
In a financial reading, the Lovers can represent a strong relationship with yourself that is creating a wealthier life. When we strengthen the relationship we have with ourselves, it often creates an environment where manifesting wealth and abundance becomes easier.
The Lovers reversed, can indicate lack of harmony within your relationships or within yourself. There is a lack of understanding which is creating distrust or disconnection. Life works in a delicate balance, relationships work through ebbs and flows and sometimes they pull away and then pull back in. The Lover reversed can indicate the pulling away from this relationship, where the disharmony within yourself or your relationships are creating this disconnection from love and understanding.
- Lack of harmony within relationship.
- Lack of trust.
- Values are not aligning.
- Lifestyles are not aligning.
- Fighting and arguing.
- Detaching from a relationship.
- Imbalance within the relationship.
In love, the Lovers card reversed suggest a lack of harmony or balance within the relationship. There could be a number of factors causing this situation. This could mean that values are not aligning, or lifestyles are not matching up in a practical way. Perhaps there is distrust present which is affecting the relationships ability to progress and expand. The Lovers upright is about love, shared vulnerability and growth an expansion. Without open honesty and shared vulnerability, the relationship cannot progress past a certain point. This may be for romantic relationships, or other relationships.
The Lovers reversed card can also be a strong indication that feelings are not mutual. Perhaps one person is more romantically invested than the other, creating a power imbalance. When power imbalances occur they can create toxic relationships, where one party may hold more power and use that power to take advantage of the other party. If this relationship is not built on mutual understanding and feelings then take a step back and access the situation for what it is.
If you are single and looking for love, the Lovers card suggest that it's time to focus on self love. Putting time, energy and love into yourself is a crucial aspect to pertaining that you can maintain healthy relationships outside of yourself. How we treat and love ourselves is crucial to our own development but also the the development of potential relationships in the future. There is a a saying that goes 'you can only know someone as far as you know yourself' well 'you can only love someone as far as you can love yourself'.
In a spiritual reading, the Lovers reversed suggest a lack of harmony within oneself, which is affecting ones spiritual development and transcendence. Perhaps we have let ourselves down, or perhaps we are avoiding internal problems within us which are affecting our ability to maintain a harmonious relationship with ourselves. It's so essential to practice self-love and self-care and do what we can to understand ourselves and why we are the way we are. Love is understanding and acceptance. So take some time out to really ask yourself what's holding you back from truly loving and accepting yourself and what are the measures you can take to remedy the situation.
In a health reading, the Lovers reversed can imply a lack of self-care. Treating your body badly and taking advantage of your physical health. For example you may be eating bad non-nourishing foods, or lack of exercise and movement, perhaps you are abusing your body through vigorous training or eating or event drug taking. Regardless of what it is, what is underlying all these things is that you're not treating your body with self-love. Your body is your vessel, respect it, show it love and learn to practice healthy and sustainable self-care.
In a career spread, the Lovers reversed can indicate disharmony within your workplace. Perhaps there is conflict with fellow collogues or perhaps a partnership is not being built on solid foundation of respect. There may be a lack of trust present within your workplace relations which is affecting your ability to really expand and grow in your profession.
The Lovers reversed can also indicate that certain relationships, potentially even those outside of your workplace are affecting your ability to perform in your career. Perhaps you have a partner or a friendship circle that drains your energy, or affects your environment, creating disharmony or lack of balance between your relationship and your career.
In a finances reading, the Lovers reversed can suggest that a relationship with yourself or with the people around you are affecting your finances. Perhaps you have a lover or friendship that is draining your bank account. Perhaps there is an imbalance where one partner is always footing the bill. Perhaps you feel disconnected from yourself and because of that you're partaking in toxic spending or being careless with your finances. Lack of harmony within yourself makes it harder to manifest abundance. Take the time to access your relationships and how they may be affecting your finances.
In a "yes or no" spread, The Lovers tarot card typically suggests a positive outcome or a "yes" answer. This card represents harmony, unity, and deep connection, often indicating a significant relationship or choice that aligns with one's true desires and values. Therefore, if The Lovers appears in a "yes or no" spread, it usually signifies that the answer is affirmative, encouraging you to embrace love, harmony, and meaningful connections in your life.
